The key to having a great conversation that flows naturally is having a good topic of conversation, right? Well, I’d say so. Most women have no problem talking, but that doesn’t mean the conversation is always fruitful or headed in a direction that will lead to yet another conversation. So where do you start when you do, indeed, want there to be another conversation with this special lady? Here are four topics women love to talk about!
- Her latest project or endeavor. Naturally, people enjoy talking about themselves. A woman loves being able to share her latest ideas, the big event she’s been planning for weeks now, or the next city she’ll be traveling to. Nothing makes her happier than knowing you’re interested in what she’s working on or where she’s going in life. The things we are passionate about means a lot to us women and therefore, we want it to mean a lot to you, too. The next time you’re sitting down to dinner with her, instead of open-endedly asking her what she did today, be specific and ask her what the latest project she’s developing is about or what new business ideas she’s come up with.
- Favorites. It doesn’t only have to be her favorite things, either. Women like these types of conversation appetizers, as I call them because they’ll get the conversation started. You’ll start off asking things like your favorite color, but eventually, you’ll roll up on a favorite that you both have in common and the conversation is sure to flow from there. Whether you get into talk about a certain time period you both miss because you have the same favorite song or you find out that you both love the same football team, I’m sure the conversation will have plenty of meaty goodness from there on out making plenty of room for future conversations.
- Your future plans. Women absolutely want to know what your plans for your future are. We want to know what kind of car you’re expecting to drive in five years. We want to know whether or not you have a desire to get married and start a family or if you’d rather live in a loft in Downtown L.A. by yourself. These types of things are really important and naturally, women will get into these details without being primed first. So, next time instead of waiting on her to ask you first or bring it up on her own, just jump right in and wow her with where you’re headed in life, King!
- Sex. This one is kind of tricky, but still, it would be a lie if I said this was not one of the things women enjoy talking about. We want the conversation to be tasteful and there is definitely a right time and place, but when the time is right and the conversation is sexy, not provocative… we love it. Trust me. Again, the conversation must be tasteful and your delivery has to be flawless! So, don’t just openly say the nastiest thing you can think of. That’s the key.
Here’s to fruitful future conversations, fellas.